I am speechless...upset

[DJ Taso]

When my wife and I married, she was faced with the realization that I am allergic to cats. Her poor kitties were put in the basement, and only receive attention when her daughter, with us half time, is home...I can't handle the dander on clothes or any other fabric so my wife must change clothes and/or take a shower depending on how much time she spends with them. Well this last weekend, because of a number of issues, she decided to find them new homes and she is devastated. ...however, she wants to give them a better life then what they have with us.

Three years ago, I lost my male German Shepherd when he dug up landscape fabric in my back yard and ingested it. I left in the morning after playing catch and hanging out with him to him being dead in my back yard and my female GSD freaking out in the evening. It was a horrible experience.

So, with the heartache of losing a pet, why do we have pets when we lose them in one way or another? Because they provide companionship and serve a purpose in our life. It sounds like Shelby did her job and loved her family. You gave her a good life and she loved you in return...sounds like success to me. Love on her, say goodbye to her, and put her down when she is in pain. Each pet is different and holds a special memory...can't take that away from you!

With people and pets, our time is finite in this world...we just need to make the most of the time we have!

Having so much hit at once is definitely a hardship, keep your faith and your memories...lots of people thinking about you.

Right on, Mark...right on..

Hang in there Ken. Give her as much love as you can before she makes the trip. She wont forget you!

[Christopherrr]

You sir, have the broadest shoulders...when life keeps stacking em', just ask for broader shoulders.

Stay strong Ken...

[Dave M]

Ken, I haven't been around this site much lately so this is the first 've heard of any of this. Let me first say I'm teribbly sorry to hear about your father. Losing a parent is one of the hardest thing anyone has to go through. All of the heartache and stress that you've been put through in just a few short weeks has to take its toll. Just know you're not alone, you've got a lot of friends here. I hope Mary makes a quick recovery and I wish the best for Shelby. Again, I'm sorry to hear about your dad. If you need anything, just say the word.