OK, I'll give the scenario and then ask what's on my mind...
I went to high school with this girl - I knew who she was, and we had some of the same friends, so she knew who I was, but we never talked or hung out or anything like that back then. A couple weeks ago, I met up with a group of friends that included her and we all headed to the bar together. I talked to her a little bit, ad she was pretty flirtatious, but that's just the way she is so I didn't think anything of it.
This past Friday, I was at the bar with two of my buddies again, when she came in with one of my buddies (they are just friends). Well, I didn't intend to, but I ended up sitting next to her, and talking to her for pretty much the whole night. She seems pretty cool, and she is DEFINITELY smoking hot. Well, we exchange phone numbers (her idea
) and continue to talk away. (By the way, is it a good sign if she makes you taste her lip gloss and then informs you that she has body lotion that tastes just like it? 
) lol, anyway, nothing much more insued that night.
Last night, I ran into her at a different bar, but I didn't talk to her much. Just a hello hug. She called me a butthead for not coming over to say hi right away -- but I was too mezmerized by Northwestern beating Ohio State! hahaha, anyway, I stayed away from her most of the night, just didn't want to come on too strong.
So that is an update of the scenario, now here is my question...
This weekend is Homecoming at Hope College. My fraternity always throws a party Friday night and then has a nice dinner/dance formal Saturday. Most alumni do not bring dates unless it is their girlfriend/fiance/wife. The actives of course do. But what happens is it always turns into a catch-up-on-old-times-with-the-boys kinda night. 30 year old family men come back in to town and try to pack 4 years of their college experience in one night. Last year, an alumnus found a lawnmower in the shed and rode it through the house. Power lines were downed, and needless to say, all things glass were broken. It always creates an awkward situation when someone brings a date that doesn't know anyone because then they spend all night entertaining and introducing them, and the girl knows that the guy wants to hang out with his friends... it's usually noticeably awkward. Add to the fact that there really is no place for us to stay there, we will end up crashing on someone's couch or futon, and we have to do this for 2 nights. It probably wouldn't lend itself to anything beyond snuggling since it isn't going to be a very intimate setting, so I am not terribly worried about that being awkward.
I definitely want to take this girl out, but I don't think this would be a very good "first date" so to speak... there will be other opportunities to call her up and take her out, but I know that girls usually eat the formal dance thing up... so it's a tough call. What do you all say?
I went to high school with this girl - I knew who she was, and we had some of the same friends, so she knew who I was, but we never talked or hung out or anything like that back then. A couple weeks ago, I met up with a group of friends that included her and we all headed to the bar together. I talked to her a little bit, ad she was pretty flirtatious, but that's just the way she is so I didn't think anything of it.
This past Friday, I was at the bar with two of my buddies again, when she came in with one of my buddies (they are just friends). Well, I didn't intend to, but I ended up sitting next to her, and talking to her for pretty much the whole night. She seems pretty cool, and she is DEFINITELY smoking hot. Well, we exchange phone numbers (her idea
) and continue to talk away. (By the way, is it a good sign if she makes you taste her lip gloss and then informs you that she has body lotion that tastes just like it? ) lol, anyway, nothing much more insued that night.Last night, I ran into her at a different bar, but I didn't talk to her much. Just a hello hug. She called me a butthead for not coming over to say hi right away -- but I was too mezmerized by Northwestern beating Ohio State! hahaha, anyway, I stayed away from her most of the night, just didn't want to come on too strong.
So that is an update of the scenario, now here is my question...
This weekend is Homecoming at Hope College. My fraternity always throws a party Friday night and then has a nice dinner/dance formal Saturday. Most alumni do not bring dates unless it is their girlfriend/fiance/wife. The actives of course do. But what happens is it always turns into a catch-up-on-old-times-with-the-boys kinda night. 30 year old family men come back in to town and try to pack 4 years of their college experience in one night. Last year, an alumnus found a lawnmower in the shed and rode it through the house. Power lines were downed, and needless to say, all things glass were broken. It always creates an awkward situation when someone brings a date that doesn't know anyone because then they spend all night entertaining and introducing them, and the girl knows that the guy wants to hang out with his friends... it's usually noticeably awkward. Add to the fact that there really is no place for us to stay there, we will end up crashing on someone's couch or futon, and we have to do this for 2 nights. It probably wouldn't lend itself to anything beyond snuggling since it isn't going to be a very intimate setting, so I am not terribly worried about that being awkward.
I definitely want to take this girl out, but I don't think this would be a very good "first date" so to speak... there will be other opportunities to call her up and take her out, but I know that girls usually eat the formal dance thing up... so it's a tough call. What do you all say?
), look/smell good and dont allow those awkward silent moments when you have nothing to say 
. You'd be surprised how girls react to this kind of treatment, guys just dont open doors anymore! If you dont mind me asking, what are you looking for in this girl? Something tells me youre not the first one whose lipgloss she's had taste. Plus the fact that you've run into her twice at a bar already, gives me the impresion that she is not the kind of girl that makes for a good and trusting relationship. But I guess you'll find that out soon enough 
) and I have women telling me about how much they love my car 
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